Sunday, January 10, 2016

How are you wasting your time today ?

Why do we waste our time on inane stuff.. Like checking out FB ? Have you really thought of how much time is being spent (read lost) on FB on a daily basis. FB claims that the average user spends 20 minutes on FB daily, whereas the average US citizen spends more than 40 minutes.. Hmm, the US is certainly overboard.. 40 or 20 minutes doesn't seem like much, but it is actually 25% of our online time. Boom, now that is really something. 

What is it about our other people's lives that interests us so much ? Is FB another form of gossip mongering  - only in this case, the person who instigates it is the person who posts. Well FB definitely titillates the senses of the average voyeur, who is content looking at other people's lives through their opinions and photos and what-not. 

A renowned Malayalam director likened FB critics who post their first day reviews of movies, to the people who scribble obscenities and pictures on walls of public toilets and trains. Well, any one has an opinion, and it is his right to express it. It is left to you to accept it or not. It is like hearing gossip from the grapevine, and choosing whether to believe it or not. This brings us to the next big keyword - 'authenticity'.

Can you believe everything you read on FB? Only as much as you trust the person posting it. Well, the person might have shared it from someone who got it from someone else and so on. So one bad chink in the chain can break it all, isn't it ? People tend to misuse it, as has been seen from many incidents. Fake news is a trending topic in itself. It can be used to good effect also, like used in the Chennai deluge recently. But it is like this with anything else - when in a position of power, it is left to the individual on how to use it - for his own good, or for others good. I wonder how many of us think before clicking that Like or Share button. Have our brains been programmed into clicking that button unconsciously ? The only reasoning that might be happening inside is for looking at who shared it - is it a reliable source ? Looking at FB news feeds, I find that this discretion has not been applied in many cases. 

Aren't there better ways to catch up with people. Like calling them or having a face-to-face chat. Of course, you can use Messenger for that, isn't it ? Now don't get me started on WhatsApp...

FB has become a social stigma, kind of like cigarettes were in the past years in colleges. You were so uncool if you were not sporting one on your lips. If you didn't smoke - in which age were you living ? You know it is bad for you, a waste of time, money and health - still you do it. Finally at least for some, good sense prevails, but then it is too late and you have wasted most of your life at the wrong end of a cig. Sounds familiar, ain't it.  If you don't post your latest selfie, or where you have checked in to, or what you think about the latest buzzword - in which age are you living dude ? And about the people that do it - why do they do it ? Is it another form of Narcissism ?

All bad things ? Not quite.. Besides all this, there is good stuff too.. FB is a treasure trove of information, but you need to be patient and sift through all the irrelevant stuff. Needle in a haystack, anyone ?
And this is the typical human failing and where most people fall. Most people waste their time looking at the irrelevant stuff.

The man behind is too cool (not media savvy) - 99% of FB stock is no small amount to be giving up. Wanting to change the world is nothing new, but actually attempting to do it and succeeding is something else. 
Usage of FB in disaster / unprecedented situations have been great - a case in point being the recent Chennai floods. 

Cant but think of the quote - 'With great power, comes great responsibility'. This is your gift, but your curse as well. Unfortunately, the power has been unleashed to the people, who use it to their benefit most of the time. Sooner or later, there will be an ad campaign where we can see SRK or Sallu bhai walk in with his swagger and say 'Use your FB wisely' (I guess Aamir Khan would be the better choice considering his recent online escapades, but the ad world wants only the former).

Friday, July 3, 2015

Ups and Downs

Life puts you in strange, unfamiliar situations and expect you to deal with it. On a day, you could be swamped with problems of varying nature. How do you deal with it ? Do you just get overwhelmed and just watch time pass by. Or do you jump in and solve one problem at a time ?

What a weird design it is. You are put in a situation against all odds, and you are expected to come out unscathed, ready to face the next barrage of situations.

Why do people get angry ? Is it the reptilian brain taking control of actions. That is the science of it. It is easy to say but is it easy to handle anger outbreaks. It is like an organism that feeds on itself.

Are there solutions to every problem ? Is it possible to think of every problem rationally, logically? I guess not. You have to wait till your reptilian brain has calmed down before you even the start with S of solution.

You may be at your highest high, at the top of the world, on one day. But on the next, life could you send you down the rabbit hole to the lowest low to the dark murky under ground.

But then that is how life is - accept it, face it and live it to the fullest.

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Death

It is said that death is a great leveller. Death is a grisly reminder of the futility of life, the thin line between having it all and losing it all, and what not. It follows you throughout your life, waiting for its moment to strike. Some people live in fear of it, and lose their lives. Some are blissfully unaware and live their lives. No matter whom it strikes, you are reminded of  your own and your near ones mortality. You wish you had a cloak, that would hide you from it, something that would give you warmth from its cold grasp, false though it may be.

Silence. Deadly silence. Forlon faces, tears, memories of a lifetime. Despair. Depression. Cold.

Unhindered, the great leveller toils on. It is the yin and the yang, the feminine and the masculine, life and death. Without one, the other does not exist.

Every start has an end.  All that take birth needs to take leave one day - that is the rule without exceptions, until someone discovers the elixir of youth, an anti ageing medicine, the somras - the drink of gods. Such things happen only in fiction, until science proves us all wrong.

How would this earth be if there were no deaths. Overcrowded ? Stagnant ? Would no death mean no birth as well ?